Welcome to Demeneshea’s Ride Like a Girl!

I began motorcycle riding in 2004, a time when many people found it an odd or adventurous challenge for a woman no longer a glowing youth. My glow may be a bit tarnished, but my patina flowed into my second or third childhood! I found myself searching everything I could find to read and re-read regarding motorcycling, touring, safety, machines, destinations, and anything somewhat motorcycle related. I read, rode, practiced and learned.

Now many thousand miles later, I enjoy finding others like myself, wanting to ride, looking for places to go and information to get there. Read More

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My woes at the California DMV or the 10th Circle of HELL!

I went to DMV yesterday to renew my plates and surrender my dmnshea plate since Gary doesn’t love riding the Bandit with my personalized plate. In my wisdom, I got numeric plates for both bikes so we can switch off.

Anyway…

The DMV woman tells me I have a parking ticket in SF that needs to be paid before i can renew. It’s $115. Hmmm, i think to myself, i never got a parking ticket in the city and not only that, when the ticket was issued, I was riding in the SW. She tells me, I can present whatever case I desire, but without paying the ticket, DMV can NOT renew. So, I pay the damn thing and renew. She gives me all the paperwork back and I see that I have just paid a ticket for James Kinsinger, who is the guy that bought my OLD Bandit.

Now, I am seriously confused. I ask this woman, what exactly James has to do with this 07 Bandit as the ticket was on the 07 Vin. WTF??

Well, three hours later, with no resolve, no refund, I left DMV with a temporary sticker and a huge written explanation to place on the Bandit until this is cleared up. Apparently, when James went to register his purchased from me 00 Bandit at AAA, they keyed in the old plate since it was on the title. Even though it had been reassigned to my new Bandit, they looked at the first DMV screen and recorded Jame’s info, making him the “new” owner of my 07, which DMV states, making all the previous paperwork I had done, inapplicable. So, in short James owns my 07 and the 00 was never registered. I am the last registered owner of it.

This took a supervisor and 4 others 3 hours to figure this out as I tried over and over to explain that I owned two Suzuki Bandits, and both had at one time, dmnshea plates. Talk about dementia…

I am still without tags, title or registration and have owned and ridden said 07 Bandit since August 2010, which is when I reassigned the dmnshea plate. :whistle I think it’s high time to use numeric plates on my bikes as obviously the transfer of a personalized plate is too much for DMV.

I am without words and apparently without a Bandit…

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Home again, home again…

Made it back from OR and a visit with my grandboys. Wow, what an amazing week. The weather could not have been better and the boys more fun. We went and investigated tide pools, swam in the hotel pool and ate. Now what could be better?? A couple of shots from the weekend and then it’s back to advanced rider’s advice to newbie riders!

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Hanging at the OR coast with my grandsons!!

A little lull will be oncoming as I am on the Oregon coast with my grandsons looking for sea serpents and magic sea shells. Wish us luck!!

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Advice for NEW RIDERS from those with years and (s)miles! Part 3

May is motorcycle awareness month so today let’s get back to some more amazing advice from advanced riders sharing their knowledge and experience with new riders. As others have said, experience is the best teacher, having a good basis of knowledge to draw from and a great introduction to motorcycling from and MSF course, every new rider will perform better.

Melissa Holbrook Pierson is not only an experienced rider but a blogger and author of one of my very favorite motorcycle books highlighting the not just the ride but the machine, The Perfect Vehicle.

Her advice is also simple but quite profound.
Ride by yourself. Ride with others. Ride with men, and definitely ride with women–it’s a wholly different feeling, and you’ll know what I mean when you experience this kick-ass wonderfulness with your sisters. Do all these different types of rides, because they feed different parts of yourself. But on all of them, ride your own ride, EVERY time. Do it your way no matter what anyone else is doing. Because that’s how you’ll stay safe to ride another day.

Tyler Risk suffered a terrible motorcycle accident three years ago and not only survived to share the tale, but has redefined her riding on a very different machine. She is riding three wheels now, and though she misses the lean, is enjoying travel none the less. Her beautiful Can Am has been dubbed “Clifford” after the big red dog and she will ride it just about anywhere!

Tyler’s advice:
Definitely take the MSF to find out if riding is for you before investing thousands of dollars in a bike and gear. Do what is best for you and listen to your inner voice – buy whatever bike you feel most comfortable on not what someone else tells you that you should ride. Include the best gear you can into your bike budget. ATGATT!! Most importantly, always, ALWAYS be true to yourself when riding. Go with your own pace and don’t get pressured into “keeping up” or doing something you’re not comfortable with. Listen to that little voice and go with what you feel is right for you.

Pam Fisher is a long term rider and MSF rider coach. She has done extensive touring and enjoys motorcycle touring with her husband, Chaz.

Pam’s advice:
Take a professionally taught new riders’ course such as the MSF’s Basic Riders Course, Riders Edge (Harley Davidson sponsored), or state run course. Do NOT let a friend or significant other teach you how to ride. Unless they are a professional MC instructor (in basic techniques) they can only teach you what they know. Which will include any and all incorrect and potentially dangerous techniques or habits. Learning from a significant other includes a spectrum of emotional stress that can make riding (or the thought of riding), a nightmare rather than a joy.

Learning to ride safely is best done from the very basics of what/where the controls are, to using the friction zone, followed by starting out and stopping smoothly, then adding shifting, etc. etc. Very few individuals have the patience to allow a new rider to get comfortable with each bit before adding the next.

Veteran/experienced riders tend to discount the learning-a-new-skill-fear most women have. This is also combined with the often subtle fear of machines/loud noises. As a result they get terse and frustrated with the student. This causes the new student to make more mistakes which results in the student feeling inept… and often giving up on riding entirely. So, hang in there and if it’s your passion, don’t give up!

Antonina Boonacker a European was raised on motorbikes and scooters from her childhood, but had been riding large format bikes only a few years. She has done extensive distance touring in Europe and the USA and has vast experience on the road.

Her advice comes from her heart.
I am 66 yrs old, and I have been riding now 7 years on a big bike. Many years ago I was on a vespa in crazy traffic.
I mostly ride long distances traveling and discovering new places. I ride in hot or cold weather avoiding snow or below freezing temps.

What are the most important aspect of riding I always have in mind?

Never ride when your body is not feeling well. Get to know your body and listen to your gut feeling. When in doubt don’t ride.

Here a story and lesson I will remember.I have a friend, and experienced rider, who fainted while riding due to some stomach problems. She and her husband (he does not ride) they had planned that weekend to go to the cabin. Her stomach flue from the day before was getting better. She said OK lets go, I will be fine. While riding she suddenly felt dizzy and passed out on her bike. Result was, crashed and was in a ditch for hours alone until they found her, (husband had taken another route with the car) Several months of hospital with broken neck, ribs and you can imagine the scenario. She was lucky not to die!! A new lesson I learned from here.

Never ride with any alcohol in your system. It is soooo tempting, just a half beer or so. I want to have full reflexes in perfect condition. I do not risk it ever, not for the cops but for me.

When tired and you feel you are not as focused any more, stop for a little while, stretch your legs drink and/or eat and then continue. 10 or 15 min can work miracles.

Always prepare for the worst weather, hot or cold. Hypothermia or heatstroke can happen without noticing that you are in the danger zone. So…think ahead and stop even if you want to push a little more don’t do it and adjust to the conditions.

Passing cars or trucks, WHEN IN DOUBT DON’T PASS!!

Never get upset with cars or pedestrians. The adrenaline of getting upset is not good and a waste of energy. They just are stupid and con not help it. That is what I tell myself. If you are upset, your reactions on the bike will change probably for the worse.

Develop a sense of reading what people are going to do, when driving close to you. I always analyze their faces expression and what they are doing in the car. Eating, talking, texting….etc or just bored and not paying attention. Pedestrians, where are they looking, dogs what is their goal…..that helps me to foresee their actions.

I always ride little faster then the regular traffic. It keeps me alert and on long rides something to think, like watching out for the cops. Do not think I am a speeder, not at all. I have come to notice, that the more miles I put on my bike the more relaxed and less need I have to speed. I know I will reach my destination just fine. having said that I am not a slow poke either. I like a variation, some twisties with good conditions I might just have fun and challenge myself. If I am in the mood to see the scenery I will go on a comfortable ride.

I do not ride in the dark, unless really necessary. I do ride but rarely in the evening in my city even though there is lighting and I am familiar with the roads and traffic.

When I ride alone I am very aware of my surroundings. If I have to stay at a motel, I do not try to call attention to the fact that I am alone. I have my mental antenna working, to let me know if something is NOT OK. I am not afraid, just aware of the situation. With time one develops and instincts for what is right and what not and still I can enjoy talking with people and have a good time.

Take good care of your bike. Tire pressure and oil level is very important and listen to unusual sounds. Also go over and give a glimpse if something is different.
Of course Full Riding Gear all the time. Be relaxed and confident that you have the skills necessary to ride. It is your mind which has the control over the bike and many more aspects in your life. As a last thing I try to always get better, learning from good riders and take a riding class or a track day when possible.

I do hope that you are enjoying this wonderful series of posts. I know that every time I read this, I learn something new! Tomorrow will the final post in this series. See you then!!

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International Female Ride Day…I did my bit!

Well, I participated in the day, but it was a solo venture riding from my house to the house of a friend in Orinda, which is near San Francisco. I traveled over the Sacramento Delta, but I’ll further elaborate on that later. We had big plans to get out on the obscure hills of the area, until her youngest adorable daughter poked herself in the eye with some local flora. An icepack and phone call later decided our fate, and we instead took the kids to dinner at the Nation’s for burgers. I’ll tell you, that cheeseburger more than made up for the loss of a few twisties!!

My friend Christina had been, up until this point primarily a forum buddy. We’d chat online, commiserate political affinities and dissatisfaction and in general enjoy one another’s talents. Today, we discovered that visiting in person was every bit as fun!

Christina is an amazing photographer, and her work can be viewed at her business website. She also wrote a wonderful book highlighting female Bay Area motorcyclists entitled Chicks on Bikes, which is on of my favorite books to share with my friends, riders and non-rider both! Her work is beautiful, intense, provocative and spontaneous much like her personality. We spend a wonderful evening and day together along with her talented and fun daughters.

Now about the Sacramento Delta. I don’t believe I have ever ridden it without getting lost at one point or another. Silly me had not enlisted my husband’s help to mount the GPS, so i was map free and proved that there is no way I should ever leave home without a map or GPS. Looking for the Delta Hwy 160 entrance, I somehow ended up in Pocket cruising around some high end neighborhood, looking very lost. I did find myself getting plenty of U-turn practice. ;)

When I finally found the right road it was already near 4pm. It’s a 2 hour ride to Orinda so, it looked like my arrival would be a bit later than intended, but hey, that’s schedule free riding for ya!

My arrival at Christina’s lovely home and the greeting from her youngest daughter.

Some artsy photos of the area shot with my iPhone…

The irises were just gorgeous!!

The entire garden around the house was lovely.

I dawdled the following day, took a nice hike with Christina’s older daughter over one steep mother of a road. Man, I thought she was gonna kill me, but she not only loaned me a good pair of walking shoes, but cut me some slack as I frequently stopped to “gain my breath”! This just proved that motorcycling isn’t the only think that needs more practice! The day was wonderful and I finally dragged myself away around 5pm and headed home.

Christina and I googled the route home and I was certain I had it together, but of course, as fate seems to have it for me, I got lost in the delta. I thought you could ride down either side of the river, but apparently I ended up deciding this too early and discovered some lovely cow fields and subsidiarity sloughs. When I reached a one lane road, I knew I had done it yet again. I’m clueless, what can I say.

I finally got home nearly 8pm…and was quite glad. So much for International Female Ride Day when the female is me!

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